An Introduction to Spirits (from The Mediator)
It’s hard to believe in things that don’t seem to be there, believe me. I still sometimes question whether I’m just a crazy person hearing voices. But if you are willing to listen, I’m willing to tell you anything you might want to know to the best of my ability. There is no such thing as a stupid question – just some are smarter than others. And (one more thing) this is for anyone and everyone. Even the faint of heart. I’m too afraid to ride a roller coaster; but I talk to dead people. Once you realize their intentions, they aren’t that bad to hang around. Now! on to the important stuff!
Definition: A ghost is a human being that was once alive but now, obviously, is dead. This is what makes them different from angels. Unless they fall, they were never alive. A ghost’s body can be seen in many different forms. Most people and video cameras see the aura of the ghost not the ghost itself.
Etiquette: You must realize, that when you talk to ghosts, you can be talking to anyone from any civilization and any time period. That doesn’t mean go up to every ghost and treat them like royalty. They are just people. My friend has a bad habit of that we’ll be joking and I’ll say something that to anyone else may be completely reasonable and she’ll start asking them if I hurt their feelings or if it was insulting. I’m not saying go be rude but remember they’re humans just like us and if it isn’t something you would say sorry for to a living person then don’t say sorry to a ghost.
Rules: Secondly, when you start talking to ghosts, set ground rules, for instance, at my house, my ghost friends aren’t allowed to move my stuff because they had a bad habit of moving things around and not putting them back or spilling things. Simple things that you really wouldn’t think of like no boys allowed in the bathroom in the morning (if you’re a girl) no interrupting anyone else’s communication time (when they’re talking to me.)
Your new mentality: You really have to get comfortable with the idea that people are with you 24/7 and kind of think of “what do I not want them to see/hear/do?” it might be easier if you have siblings, I don’t know.
Not doing as well as you hoped?: There are some people, that after a few times of talking to ghosts they can see them and hear them and then there are some that take years to even sense them. Becoming friends with ghosts is kind of walking into a whole other world give it time and practice. And remember, you only get out as much as you put in.

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I’m not the best person to talk to you – my friend the Mediator is the one who specializes in spirit communication. If you could post with more specific information on what’s going on – or email me at sortofpsychic@yahoo.com – I’m sure she’d be glad to give advice.